darren lee miller

This is the true story of my narcissistic ex-husband and the years long abuse he forced those around him to endure.

Darren Lee Miller is a dangerous person who falsely proclaims himself as a "spiritual guide" when in fact nothing could be further from the truth.

On April 10th, 2010, Darren was arrested for holding both me and my eldest daughter hostage locked in our bathroom while he had both our infant daughter and a .22 calibur gun in his hands.

As an adult survivor of a narcissistic mother, something not yet realized during that time in my life, I stayed with Darren. I played the fool and took him back many times including the time below.

While I was working, Darren, who stayed home to "take care" of the girls, met a more "financially stable" woman via an online dating platform whom he duped using the same bullsh*t he used when we first met. Darren moved in with this woman weeks after knowing her and from there his abuse towards me and the children escalated.

Darren convinced his new partner that I was the worst in every way in order to achieve his nefarious goal in destroying our lives. This only worsened after The Kent County Family Court within the State of Delaware went against Delaware's own "7 FACTORS" which are laws used in order to decide custody matters that involved DOMESTIC VIOLENCE like ours. Please read here for further information related to the "family" court side of this story.

The second Darren was given shared custody of our infant daughter he abused this right in every way possible. This is evidenced within all the saved email and text messages saved through the years and also found here.

Feeling that the "family" court system failed my children and I and not knowing where else or who else to turn to, I did the only thing I could think of and fled the State of Delaware with both children only to be found in Austin, Texas by United States Marshals wherein my children were violently removed while I was placed in a maximum security prison until I was later extradited back to the State of Delaware over a month later wherein my eldest child (not Darren's btw) and I were not only kept from being in the baby's life but also went through YEARS of Darren's constant abuse thanks again to Delaware's BROKEN "family" court SYSTEM.

Some of Darren's tactics included yet were not limited to: Filing a false Protection From Abuse Order (restraining order) wherein he provided the court my old address so he'd receive the Order by DEFAULT which was unbeknownst to me until I took action against Darren for the lies and stories he used to profit financially through various online platforms which he consequently used in court as "proof" that I "unlawfully contacted" him. The court found me to be in contempt of breaking the no-contact order which in turn prolonged my time away from the baby.

From 2010 up until 2024 Darren Lee Miller used the "family" court system to abuse my family. I fought every day and did everything I was "supposed" to in order to have my baby back in our lives. Every time we would get close Darren would do something rotten and another year would go by. Until finally I had no choice but to cease all "family" court filings due to the trauma Darren continuously put our daughter through. During this time I focused more on my oldest child's well-being as this was a strain on her too. I asked the Court to dismiss my Rule To Show Cause hearing back in 2016 wherein it was recorded within the docket that the trauma Darren was putting our baby through was only getting worse the more I tried to see her so perhaps by not trying maybe her sanity would be saved.

In May 2024 I was finally alerted by the "family" court via email that Darren's ex wife was filing for "guardianship" of our daughter because he refused to consent to her much needed medical care and his ex wife could do nothing about helping her medically. Through this it was learned that Darren had been out of the household since 2017 and was also highly abusive to both his ex wife and our child. EXACTLY what I warned the court about OVER AND OVER AND OVER.

After reconciling with Darren's ex wife and reconciling our past grievances, my youngest was finally reintroduced back into our lives wherein she has lived with me since January 2025. This is the short of the very long story which leads me back to why this page was created in the first place.

While Darren Lee Miller touts himself as a "godly self-help guru" everywhere he can online for the past 10 years, he continues his abusive reign behind the scenes. Wherein it's been revealed that he was not only both physically and mentally abusive towards our daughter throughout his time in and out of her life, he provided NOTHING towards our child financially throughout the years he abandoned her for his ex wife to raise. All the while buying himself stuff like UNI-CYCLES and TOP OF THE ART microphones for his online videos.